People always underestimate love by limited it between a love of a girl and a boy. Everybody have its own definition but no one can give its proper description. Before initiating my personal point of view about love, I want to clarify some wrong believes of people about it.
1. If someone loves another due to eyes, lips or body then it is not love, it is lust or yearns.
2. If he or she loves someone due to astuteness aptitude, then it is approbation, not love.
3. If it is because he or she snivels when you try to depart, then its sympathy, not love.
4. If it is because you always forget to slumber, chomp or study, while talking to him or her, then it is actually infatuation or fascination.
We should not judge the beauty of love by above narratives. It exists when a little girl puts her energy to give her dad a kiss. It also subsists when a wife makes tea for her husband and takes a sip before him. When a mother gives her son the best piece of cake, there is love. When your friend holds your hand tightly on a slippery road and when your brother or sister messages you and ask if you reach home on time, this represents love. It is not just a boy holding a girl and going around the city. Therefore, we can say that love is actually another name of care.
Now let me focus on some of its common characteristics. Love is patient, kind, always protects, always trusts, always hopes, keeps no record of wrongs and rejoices with the truth. Where there is love, there is no place for rudeness or pride. Possessiveness is not love, fear is not love and expecting something from someone is not real love. Real true love is unconditional. To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with.
Love is learning to see the beauty in everything and it is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. Its sense will vary with each different relationship and depends further on its concept of deepness, flexibility, and intricacy. However, at times the very subsistence of love has questioned. Several say it is phony and futile. It says that the existence of love is not at all, because there have been many illustrations of abhorrence and viciousness in relationships. The history of our human race has witness many such incidents. There has been revulsion between brothers, parents and children, sibling enmity and spouses have botched each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has eradicates his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the contemporary generation is also facing with such dilemmas on a daily basis. Nevertheless, love is not guilty for that. It is we, the people, who have forgotten the connotation of love and have undertaken such grisly boredom. However, there is no true meaning in love because love with meaning is not love.