Firstly, let's talk about inner-self which is directly or indirectly affected by one's outer world. Secondly, talking about what one's inner-self want to achieve? And how one does outer-world can help anyone to achieve the goal of inner-self?
To answer above questions there are lot of different approaches which can be used for that purpose. Now answering the first question, the of inner-self want to achieve "satisfaction" - if your inner-self is satisfied / normal to condition then one's outer-world seems to be beautiful, pleasant and mind blowing as well.
For getting satisfaction for inner-self there are some approaches which can be used:
"God has done the best for all His creations"
It explains that if you have lost anything from your life even you have struggled for it from dawn to dusk then this does not mean that you do not deserve that one while you deserve better than that thing. By thinking that you have a real smile and a real smiling is dependent on your inner-self satisfaction, it not just from your face appearance while it has a deep relation with inner-self.
So, by using this approach one can satisfy inner-self.
According to another approach; this focuses on your daily life situations, circumstances, events and all other happenings.
When all above things are not in your favor it means these are not according to your will/expectation, then it does not mean that you should devalue your self and start to think negatively. By facing all these things you must use 'positive thinking approach'. You can say to yourself that there is a need to change my own self personally rather than anyone else'. Another way to tackle you should understand that all these events are happening to teach you new things.
Now coming towards 'analytical approach' that also can be useful for gaining self satisfaction. By this approach one can satisfy his/her inner-self but also can handle the running situations. Analytical approach in this sense is a process of analyzing yourself and all happenings during the whole day at the time of sleeping.
By experiencing this approach; you will learn how to maintain and link the things with one another. In this process first of all you have to do some exercises:
- Point out all the mistakes which you've committed during the whole day with reasons and also define possible ways to correct them for future life.
- Point out all good things done by yourself and in response what you have received?
For example, if someone passed real smile when you've greeted him/her in new way. Tell yourself that you have earned something which is much better than money or anything else. In this way you can motivate, satisfy and normal you're inner-self at the current conditions.
At the end of this small but comprehensive article, we can say that we can satisfy our inner-self with reference to outer-world.