I want to do something productive this monotonous tone of life driving me mad I am stuck with this office and home nothing new exciting everything stop being fun. Now a days it is very common in youngster who start their career after getting a degree all university days gone with the wind friends are busy in their jobs no more hulla gulla with group, some got married some left homeland for further studies and almost same issues with others. Now how to cop up with this changing life phase its natural when a person enter into a different phase means practical phase of life there are needs of adjustments as we are not use to of this phase.

Job is entirely new thing for us it brings a big responsibility and “Money” too , in most of cases we landed on a job which is not equal to our caliber but we left with no option as economic conditions getting worse and worse so employment opportunities are shrinking. Job is unlike the university it brings office politics too it’s really hard these days to find out a good colleague and boss. If ones feel good about having a bread earner ,big pocket money, enjoy spending it on his/her favorite stuff on other side he/she suffer depression and stress too as life is changing for him. Hardly get spare time to be with friends and family and if found schedule clashes are up means other are busy. its also been observed that some people continuously seeking and living in the past phase don’t accept the present situation and when find out it next to impossible cant hold back their stress and this practice ruin their both lives office and family.

So what is the solution? First of all accept this reality, student life is over and its time to face and embrace job life, make new friends but don’t compare them with your old friends give time as time is best healer you will use to this and by and by start enjoying this change as new assignment comes to your way also bring a sense of accomplishments. As you have spent your precious year in studying so its time to turn theory into practical. Try to enjoy it despite of nasty colleagues and rude boss don’t ruin you mood because of those who are unimportant to you.

Try to be cool minded and where needed do speak up for your right but careful about your tone be decent and sober. So back to the main issue how to mange your new phase, I agree, you also want to do something else to satiate your inner feeling you don’t want to stick with this job solely. Why not enroll your name in some professional course or entirely new stuff means arts or start helping out the poor and weak member of society believes me you will find true satisfaction in it there are thousand things to do just figure it out, Something that suit to your mood and nature. And don’t forget to plan out with your friends once in a while stay in touch with them by and by you ‘l also make some new and sincere friends too .Don’t let yourself carried away with the depression.

Just get rid of this all gloomy thoughts whenever your mind force you to think about something negative try your best to focus on positive aspects of your life. It is best strategy believe me. So cheer up and think at least you are employed don’t matter your pay is low colleagues are insensitive, As soon as you get other opportunity move on but until stay focused and cheek lifted. Monotonous routine will be no more on same frequency if you try so all is up to you it’s our thinking style which differentiate us from others. So what are you waiting for...start working?

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