Self-realization is first step towards success. I often think that why self-realization is so important, people are still very successful under the shadow of self-ignorance. But eventually I realize that people are not ignorant they know themselves very well but reluctant and afraid of admitting their weaknesses. They try to wrap their fear of being exposed under their rough attitude, if someone tries to make them realize they burst into anger. They have very rigid thinking pattern which block all the new d thoughts like a scanner who kick out virus from the system. They believed that they are the best and everyone around them is perfectly inspired from them, they do not even bother to look at other’s perspectives. They spend their whole life in an allusion.

I have seen many people who try to be very broadminded so that modern society could label them as liberal and shower down the bucket of praise on them but back home they scorn at society views; in their domestic life they are the most conservative persons who satisfied their ego by abusing the inferiors like children, wife or siblings. The worst dilemma of being self-ignorance is that they know themselves but refuse to admit that, when a patient deny to admit his disease intentionally how a doctor can cure?

A self-ignorant person is usually going through a severe depression and stress as he always tries to hide his true personality and live a fake life. His ego never allows him to admit his mistake but deep down he knows everything. They need counseling but how? They get easily furious over tiny issues. Only their dearest ones can make them realize in a way their ego go unhurt. It is really difficult task as their dear ones are the most severe victims of their brutal behavior. We need proper counseling for them to make them realize, they are going through a psycho problem. Lack of proper guidelines and counseling centers have made this problem more sever. In some cases it has been observed that people around these patients also adversely affect and adopt the similar behaving pattern in future too.

We first admit it as a disease so that we can suggest a proper treatment for this. Unfortunately in our society we do not accept these concepts of human behavior readily, we have very rigid behavior and block all rational thinking. A proper guidelines should be spread through electronic media like TV, face book etc. we need to create awareness about mental problems.

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